Child and Youth Counselling

Written by Amber Raymond

Today’s children and youth are growing up in a world that tells them they can be themselves yet still expects them to fit into predetermined boxes. There’s pressure from all sides: parents who want the best for them, teachers who expect excellence, mentors who model ideals, and a society that constantly broadcasts who is “worthy” of admiration. In all of this, young people are quietly trying to figure out who they really are and how to belong without betraying their truth.

The adolescent experience includes a deep longing for acceptance—not for the roles they play or the achievements they collect, but for who they really are. Yet, many teens find themselves torn between the Self they’re discovering and the version of themselves that seems more acceptable to others. This internal tug-of-war can lead to confusion, anxiety, self-doubt, and the quiet, persistent question: Is it really ok to be me?

Child and Youth Counselling responds to this question. It provides a safe, supportive, and empowering space for young people to explore who they are, without pressure to perform or conform. It’s not about correcting anything. It’s about guiding young people through the natural process of becoming their Higher Self, and giving them the permission they may need to honour this version of themselves.

Authenticity should never be traded for belonging - Young people should never have to choose between being true to themselves and being part of something bigger. Through meaningful conversations, reflective guidance, and emotional support, youth can develop confidence in who they are, along with the skills needed to express it proudly in a world that challenges it. What the younger generation needs is permission to belong as themselves. And often, just someone to tell them, “You’re allowed to be you—and in all honesty, the world needs it.”